What Men Secretly Want
Even though this is my blog about business and life, I sometimes like to write about relationships. In reality, whether people realize this or not, relationships are one of the biggest factors in all our lives, and most people struggle with it. To top it off, there is an increasing amount of complexity when it comes to dating, love and finding and attracting men or women that truly understand their partners.
In this post, I would like to discuss this straight forward topic of what it is that men secretly and really want when it comes to women and relationships. The reason for this topic is that once I found this information, I realized that this is the same thing that men want in a business or profession too (to a large degree).
What men secretly want from women but rarely ever say openly are a few things but one of these things stands above the rest. There is a book that I recently found online. This book got my interest, and then I later found out that a number of my friends have known about this book, and a couple have even read it and found it useful. This book is in a pdf format, as it is an ebook called What men secretly want, a.k.a Be Irresistible (to men) by a relationship coach by the name of James Bauer. Turns out that James has helped several women in this specific area of their lives, and decided that this was a common problem that women faced. He realized that most women think so differently than men that they do not understand men much, and find it rather difficult to connect with them. He also found that most women find it hard to know what men want and think in terms of relationships, so he decided to write a book with the information he used to help his female friends.
It is crucial to know and understand what men want in women that they are interested in dating and possible even marrying. One of the most important things mentioned by James Bauer in his book What Men Secretly Want is “Respect”. Yeah, that’s right….it is something as fundamental as respect. It seems that in our daily hustle and grind, people have become more curt in their interactions even with their partners, husbands and boyfriends. The answer to this question, “what men secretly want” is rather simple…it is “Respect”. James Bauer also found this to be true and included this as the core of his book and called it, The Respect Principle.
Most women, have no clue that this is the case, and that men can completely switch off and in some cases even completely disappear from a woman’s life if they feel disrespected by that woman.
There are many other great pointers in this book, so you may want to check it out.